I returned to Buenos Aires this weekend after a short trip to visit family in Tennessee. Fortunately I wa able to get a cheap flight from using my frequent flyer miles on American. I was able to find a free flight for 40,000 miles from Buenos Aires – Miami – Nashville and back. It wasn’t entirely free since you still have to pay taxes, etc., but was a very good deal on a flight. Hmmm, so I guess that’s a cheap roundtrip to Nashville from Buenos Aires.
One of the main reasons I went was for the Barry Family reunion. My father’s family has lived on the same land in Tennessee since 1820. My aunt, uncle, and cousins still farm the land. It was good to see distant relatives and catch up with the family. Tennessee is suffering from a horrible drought. The land is extremely dry and the corn fields are solid brown… looks like there’s no corn from Tennessee this year.
I visited my brother in east Tennessee and things are a lot greener there though the lakes are still very low.
This was my first visit back to the U.S. after living in Argentina for the past two and a half years. Driving around Tennessee reminded me how much wilderness still exists in the U.S. and the suburban nature of almost all the cities. Or, as in my small hometown or the small town where my brother lives, the towns are nothing more than one strip mall after another, completely devoid of any charm. I’m not a big fan of the automobile, so I prefer living either in a really big city or in a village nestled in the mountains.
So, here I am back in the urban grit of Buenos Aires. I love it.
But I also always will be a Tennessean, a Southerner. There’s something about growing up in the rural South that always stays with you even though I don’t accept all the conservative attitudes. Non-Southerners don’t understand the South. All I can advise is to read Faulkner, particularly one of my favorite novels: Absalom, Absalom!
September 16th, 2007 at 11:00 pm
Welcome back! I love Baires too.
I’m argentinian, from Sta Rosa, La Pampa but I live here at Baires since 1984 and I love this city.
September 16th, 2007 at 11:27 pm
Hey Fabio – thanks!
September 20th, 2007 at 10:45 pm
That is so true that non-Southerners don’t understand the South. I was born in Buffalo and grew up mostly in Tampa. Neither are Southern (regardless of Tampa’s physical location) as I am sure you know. I went to school in Bowling Green, KY (an hour north of Nashville) and had some serious culture adjustment problems. Actually moreso than when I moved to the Dominican Republic. I actually had to move for my sanity, I’m just “too rude” and I couldn’t handle the Southern “niceness” it was “too indirect” for me.
Anywho my partner is marplatense and I went to Buenos Aires for two months when I was 14.
September 21st, 2007 at 10:06 am
Hi Rémy, Thanks for your comment. I actually grew up just 20 minutes south of Bowling Green, right on the other side of the Tennessee state line. You’re definitely right about Southerner’s being indirect. I’m still very much that way, just can’t help it. But the Southern “niceness” as you realized is often fake, even hypocritical. The American South is certainly a different culture and, yep, most of Florida is not part of the South.